A Girl's Guide to Femdom: Tips, Tricks, Rituals and Punishments for Every Week of the Year

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The sub willingly gives up control because they enjoy being submissive. The key term here is willingly . The sub still has the ultimate control and gets to set his/her limits and boundaries beforehand — they have the final say about what you can/can’t do. As a Dom, it’s essential that you respect those boundaries. So, it won’t be a bad thing if you ask more experienced doms to give you femdom advice. Frankly, that won’t hurt because the more experienced doms are better placed to offer femdom play ideas. 4. Always enjoy There are some things that are mandatory tools to train your mate. These fall into the core categories below. These are the things that truly get into your mates psyche and allows you to dominate them thus making them into a more affectionate and living thing. There are other things that we can do just to push the boundaries of our control, although these are not necessarily they can help reinforce the dominance and at the very least could bring enjoyment and pleasure to you. The fall under the auxiliary category. I will give a brief break down in the next couple chapters of why each is important along with some suggestions for the activities. There are many different specific types of submissions, and every sub has his/her own tastes. Some of the most popular fantasies subs like to act out include: This is a guide for people just starting out and for the seasoned femdom queen and her well-rehearsed sub. You can read this from both sides, as a sub who wants to try this stuff alone or show his dom what he likes and as a dom who wants to find out how to blow their sub’s mind and assert their dominance. What This Guide Involves

The idea is to tie up your man and have something that doesn’t stop jerking him till you’re satisfied. You can also throw in some punishments just in case he cums before you want him to. 10. Impact Play Asking for your permission is not only well-mannered as we discussed before but essential. He is never allowed to do anything without approval from his mistress. Here are some of the things that he must ask and do: Pet play is becoming more common in the BDSM world every day. In a femdom setting, the sub is required to imitate an animal. As the dom, you can make the animal your pet and groom it.You can even up the ante by writing these insults on his body. Of course, the list is not limited to the insults we’ve mentioned. So, you should get creative and think of the harshest insults that you can think of. 15. Butt play Long term chastity is a good way of keeping your mates mind on you. For health reasons (if that matters) it is usually only suggested for those living together. Start off the program with a couple days than weeks and so on. Hair Pulling: Pull their hair to guide them and show them who is in charge around here. Gentle tugs or strong pulls, whatever you feel is needed at the moment. You can experiment with impact play if your sub is on board with the idea, but if it’s new to either of you, make sure you move slowly. If a whip is a little too much for your tastes, try a paddle instead. A paddle has a wider surface area, so it’s less painful and usually a better impact play tool for beginners. It’s great for spanking. 5. Handcuffs

Exercise: Especially if they don’t work out, find a workout on youtube, something hard, and have him complete the whole video whilst you watch.

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Bed Restraint: I love this bed restraint, it works great, it’s discreet and it allows you to secure all four limbs if you need to and get him into all kinds of positions. The torture chamber is exactly what the name suggests—a chamber where torture is inflicted. Or simply put, this is a room where severe pain resides. A typical torture chamber for BDSM boasts several torture pieces of equipment that offer you the luxury of trying out various methods to inflict pain on your partner.