Fosbury also has warm memories of the elder Hanes. “He and I would talk about the quality of coaches and how to improve their knowledge base so they know what they’re doing and, you know, both of us really had a love for helping kids find out what they love to do and helping them to become the best they can be,” he says.

This authenticates the quote: “ he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches.” You will feel the pang of the pain of living a difficult life. Not everyone would like to see you achieve your lofty goals. Snakes in the grass (a little whisper).Sometimes, it is so hard to get the help or the support you need from family members, friends, loved ones, etc. They need help also and that would surely reduce the kind of attention they would have for you. While I certainly respect the journey of this young man and I find his perseverance inspiring, I had an immediate reaction of disbelief when I first came across this news story. “No one cares about anything that might be affecting your work. Get over it. And while you’re at it, give even more of yourself to your employer or team.” As an HR professional and leadership coach, I know that when leaders care about their team members, an environment is created that motivates people to work harder while increasing loyalty—not the other way around. That first hunting experience was with a rifle, not a bow. It wasn’t until high school that he would be introduced to bowhunting by Roy Roth, and not until he was in his early 20s, attending community college, working, and hunting in his spare time, that he decided to dedicate himself to it. Even the little help you may get from someone in support of your goals or relief you of your troubles might not come from a genuine heart.

Hanes’s hunting has earned him condemnation as well as praise. Condemned by media outlets such as the Huffington Post and some animal rights groups, he was the focus of an unsuccessful Change.org petition signed by over 3,000 people demanding that Under Armour, one of his sponsors, sever ties with him. He received particularly vociferous criticism on social media recently when a group of hunters he was with in Alberta, Canada, killed a three-legged bear. One day on a run, Hanes noticed a 130-pound boulder. Intrigued, he decided to add it to his exercise routine and began carrying it one and a half miles uphill once every seven days. (He stopped when the boulder disappeared from its usual spot on the trail.) The reason is simple. That person also has some kind of demons to fight. He can’t leave his battleground and fight for you.

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I make a regular effort to stay active, and my workouts of late have included short, low-rep, high-weight exercises to build strength. I start the lateral raises. Thirty seconds in, my arms are gelatin. I am in good shape, but not in Outlaw Strength shape. He’s mapped out a challenging nine-mile route for us up Mt. Pisgah. “These hills aren’t gonna run themselves!” he grins, as I do my best to match his long strides. Let me tell you this. Your obsession with feeling neglected because no one seems to care is useless. If you really want to enjoy the love, care, and help from almost everyone; then it would take two things: The more you expect these people to care, the more you broadcast your plans...and the more you get yourself into trouble.

In this post, I want you to develop a strong mindset toward your personal development and anything you hold valuable. Remember the words of Albert Einstein: He thanked everyone who said ‘ no.’ Because of them, he did it by himself. I vividly remember one specific occasion when the idea of "no one cares work harder" came into play. Whatever the issue, this slogan will help you during those times when you are treated unjustly, so you can get through without being consumed by bitterness and anger. Nobody cares work harder" is also an empowering motto to keep in mind when you have to deal with disappointment or delayed expectations. It will also help you remember that the best revenge is no revenge - except to move on with your life and keep doing great things.Yes! Breathe fire like a dragon. Be strong, fight your battles wisely and bravery. They will later care but probably not today. Hanes has frequently spoken about why practice is so important for hunters who hope to survive the hazards of the wild. I witness this commitment to preparedness when we drive over to a farm owned by a longtime friend of Hanes’s who has a large archery range set up on his property.