For example, the couple may decide on a set of rules and expectations for the wife and establish consequences for breaking those rules. Both partners must understand and agree on these rules and values and for the wife to have a say in decision-making. Christian Domestic Discipline is a controversial topic that has been gaining attention recently. While it’s not for everyone, those who practice it argue that it’s a biblical concept that can lead to a more healthy and fulfilling marriage. Through real stories of couples who practice CDD, we’ve explored the role of submission, the benefits and challenges of the practice, and the importance of communication and boundaries. Whether you approve of the idea or not, it’s clear that Christian Domestic Discipline is a lifestyle choice that requires careful consideration and open communication between partners. Domestic discipline plays a vital role in marriage. Because in every marriage, there needs to be a disciplined life. Love, trust, respect, honesty, and happiness must be there. And they can get it through domestic discipline because it means all of these, not abuse or violence. So it could be better for every people to maintain it. Domestic Punishment Why did you feel the FLR dynamic would be best for your relationship, as opposed to the other dynamics? Finally, some people believe that CDD is a way for men to exert control over their wives. While there may be some examples where this is the case, proponents of CDD argue that it’s about mutual respect and love and that both partners benefit from the practice. Conclusion

They want their children to listen to all their sayings, but they have their freedom. So parents shouldn’t do this thing. They can do this differently instead. There appears to be a modern movement within Christianity where husbands are instructed to groom and domestic discipline their wives. It wasn’t always that way, however. Just over seven years ago my husband and I would have handled conflict, disagreements, and certain situations with an argument, or by going to bed silently without talking things over. That all changed when we came across the idea of domestic discipline. One of the essential segments of a healthy CDD relationship is communication. It’s important for both partners to be open and honest about their thoughts and feelings and to establish clear guidelines and boundaries from the outset.You have to talk with your partner respectfully. You can’t behave rudely, or if he’s saying to do something, do it faster. If you fail to do it, you’ve to get the punishment.

Women can discipline their husbands too. They can punish their husband if they know everything between them. And if they can nicely handle their partners, their husbands will respect, love, care, and all things needed. All these verses justify that the husband can choose physical punishment or any form of punishment, including spanking. Conversely, this weird interpretation misses that nowhere in the scripture does the Lord ever command or even allow for the physical punishment of wives by husbands. Slight physical punishment is reserved for children to safeguard them from their foolishness. On the other hand, Wives are mature enough to understand the Biblical rules and maintain household discipline. Instead, to maintain household discipline, a couple should understand each other harmoniously and run the family. Jassy is a 26-year-old lady. She belongs to an aristocratic family, where she learned to socialize. She has studied at the best university. By profession, she is a teacher. It’s been two years since she married Steve, a 30 years old young gentleman. He works in a multinational company. Though it is an arranged marriage, they got time for courtship. During courtship, they spent quality time understanding each other. After four months of courtship, they decided to tie the knot with the consent of their family. My assistant Lisa stopped here. I was expecting more to hear about this young couple. Because of being a counselor, I was not finding any anomaly in the marriage! But, still, they are here, in my chamber, for counseling. Suppose your wife makes a mistake you can’t usually take, be patient and make her understand. After that, she’ll realize that she did wrong. But if you spank her, she’ll be injured, so choose a good way to make your wife respect you and be careful about these things. Domestic Discipline BooksAfter signing in, you can set up eight options: “Show my country,” Message Alerts, Highlight Words, Ignore Visitors, Mute all PMs, Show Images, Video Thumbs, and Using Font Options. A deeper spiritual connection: For many couples, CDD is a way of bringing God into their relationship and strengthening their faith. As the ladies struggle with their notions of love, the men struggle with the hot and cold temperaments of their wives, and all of them wonder if, and how, they can make their marriages work. Be Warned: This book contains explicit erotic scenes, spankings, and some sexy alphamales who take their duties very seriously.

Some people use a combination of tools based on the specific infraction. For example, it uses a hairbrush, a paddle, or a leather strap with many things men hit their wives. Some people get angry if their partner breaks the rules or does anything without permission, then they start hitting and spanking. Then if he tells you to give him water or anything, give it faster. So if they follow all their partners’ sayings, it’ll become a good relationship. So you must know about the consequences and then do your work. The final question that easily makes the most popular questions list is: What happens when the HOH breaks a rule? How are they held accountable? The answer to this one varies couple by couple.Speaking frankly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns is also important. If either partner feels uncomfortable or unsafe at any point, the practice should be reevaluated. Lesbian domestic discipline means the discipline between two women. As we all know, if any girl attracts another girl, we call her a lesbo, so some women are lesbian, so their domestic discipline is like others. They also used to spank. Or some of them show love, respect, truth, and happiness. But every people must know the actual meaning of it. Eventually, we can understand this Building a domestic discipline relationship is like building a house, so we should keep the house calm and peaceful. Some domestic discipline couples choose the Spencer Plan/Cooperative Domestic Discipline dynamic that I mentioned earlier. So, when the HOH breaks a rule they are held accountable in the same way that the submissive partner would be. Others opt for a more Biblical approach (with the Christian Domestic Discipline, or CDD, dynamic), which believes in somewhat of a hierarchy with God being at the top, then the husband, then the wife, then the children. The children are held accountable by both parents, the wife is held accountable by the husband, and the husband is held accountable by God. For those who don’t practice Christian Domestic Discipline or The Spencer Plan, they typically have some sort of accountability program in place for the HOH, but the consequences of that differ dramatically from that of the submissive partner. How each couples handles this situation is very different from couple to couple. It becomes hazardous, and it impacts the other members of the family. Instead of spanking them, you can try to know the reason behind their fault. You can make them understand which is good for them and which things not to do.

Her eyes smarted with tears as she undid her pants. She enjoyed funishment as much as the next girl, but ass-blistering discipline? Hated it. She’d burn every one of his paddles if she could get away with it. Rahm approached discipline the same way he did everything else in his life— decisively, swiftly. He kept a number of paddles handy so he could spank on the spot. But she hadn’t known about the one in his desk. She had not missed the discipline spankings while he’d been away. Not one bit. There are many things that separate domestic discipline from abuse – many things that I didn’t see until we tried the lifestyle for ourselves. The biggest element, and perhaps the most important one, is consent. Everything in domestic discipline is agreed upon and consented to beforehand by both partners. Secondly, as I mentioned earlier, there are many domestic discipline relationships that don’t include any physical punishment (spanking) at all, and thus it is hard to justify how a relationship based on consensual dominance and submission could be abusive. And third, I think it’s important to point out that in almost all (I would estimate 80%-90%) of domestic discipline relationships, it begins with the submissive partner approaching the soon-to-be HOH with this concept. This doesn’t directly tie in with the abuse factor, but I think it’s significant to mention because often times the lifestyle is misunderstood and perceived as a bunch of men, or HOH’s, looking for an excuse to beat their wives, when that couldn’t be further from the truth.Mark adds that the practice has brought them closer together as a couple. “When Sarah submits to me, it shows me that she trusts me and respects my authority. It also helps us communicate better and resolve conflicts more effectively,” he says. It is hard to say for sure how common a FLR might be, but since we began to explore it several years ago, there is certainly a lot more information available on the subject today information on FLR is enormous compared to what was available just a few years ago. We sense that it is becoming more and more common, and is rapidly growing in popularity. Another couple, Rachel and David, have been practicing CDD for five years. Rachel says that the discipline has helped her overcome personal struggles and become a better wife and mother. “I used to struggle with anger and impatience, but since we started practicing CDD, I’ve learned to control my emotions and focus on being a more loving and supportive partner,” she says. Transform Your Love Life (Submissive Training and Tips of Spanking and domestic discipline) by Paula Ann (Author), Damian Old (Author)