New year, Same me (Hotties for holidays Book 1)

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We live to make bad leadership extinct so forward this newsletter to others who strive to be confident leaders. Let's Connect Laying in bed wide awake after a fight with my husband. He’d pulled me aside fifteen minutes earlier and said, “We’d better have a pash and a grope because its new year.” My instant unconscious reaction of a low exhausted groan wasn’t taken too well, which resulted in his anger over my response. I love the start of the new year. It’s exhilarating – a blank canvas to write a new leadership journey… cue eyeroll from leaders who don’t necessarily share this outlook. They see a different view – a looming Mount Everest that must be climbed yet again! So, as the leader, how should you approach the new year? “Listen. I wish I could tell you it gets better. But, it doesn’t get better. You get better.” – Joan Rivers, American Comedian This Week's Edition

It’s 11.56pm on new years eve. I can hear the neighbour’s muffled laughter through loud music. Some others down the street have been setting off fireworks, happy screams pervading the night sky. Right now, a bunch of people are happy. They are revelling in the hype of a new year, fuelled with alcohol and the hopes and dreams of tomorrow. If you do have a larger goal in mind, writing it down alongside a step-by-step plan of how you’ll achieve it will make your dreams far more likely to become reality. We can often focus on the bigger picture and fail to see the details within it, yet nothing worth doing happens overnight. Try to embrace the challenge of having a goal, and really reflect on the route you can take to get there. I find that I am more likely to do something when it is the right time and comes directly from me. A hurdle I need to overcome is a brilliant catalyst for me to decide on a change of direction. New Year, Same Me If we were to look at the 6 factors, you can ask yourself the question “ Am I happy with x at present?” about each one of them. If the answer is no, you can ask yourself the next question “What can I do to change it?” followed by “What does the ideal situation look like for me?”

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My mind is still a work in progress. This is probably where the biggest changes have occurred and the work of untangling my thoughts enough to be comfortable is going to take some time. It is not something I can do by announcing a mindset shift for a new year but will happen slowly, one thought at a time. For now, I have started the work. I have begun to look at the way that being a parent has changed my perspective and the way that I think about things or react to situations. Most importantly of all I have stopped judging my thoughts too harshly. including bold and italic. Over 1,300 free fonts are also supported for all devices. Any other font I spent New Year’s Eve Eve wriggling in pain as the accumulation of nights falling asleep on the couch, then crawling to bed 2 hours later to pass out at odd angles has added up to being stiff as a board, aching, with very little ability to look both ways crossing the street. I just close my eyes and pray to god. If all 6 are in flux, it might be time for a career change entirely ( See Chandler in FRIENDS moving to Yemen). Generally, there tends to be 1 maybe 2 pain points that are contributing to an unhappiness and thus drastic goals. Can you set small goals that build a platform for you to launch from.

The questions you have to ask yourself will be hard and the answers might be unpleasant. There will be core variables in your equation that you will need to analyse in depth; I’m a shit wife because I’m too weary to have sex every day. Will that change in the new year? Will, come midnight, I suddenly turn into a horny minx who gets hot under the collar at the words “let’s have a grope?” Step 1: Review your year month by month. List your successes, large and small. Identify the leadership skills and approach you drew on to achieve those successes. How do I improve my situation or make up for said deficit? What is the variable in my equation that needs to change for the other side of the equals sign to be happy? A plan needs to be in place to launch your goals in the right direction.The biggest thing I felt that I was missing was the connection with my friends. The difficulty of finding a suitable date, time and venue for us all to meet meant that much more time passed between our meetups. It made me sad to think that I wasn’t seeing them that often but this just meant that I needed to find new ways of maintaining the connection. I have found a new love of voice notes for the times when it is too difficult to type out messages and chats on the phone are not achievable. If we manage a half an hour slot where we are both free, I can squeeze in a chat on speakerphone while I prepare dinner or fold the laundry. The core of our relationships are still the same but, as with everything, they have matured and changed. Children or no children, schedules become full, lifestyles alter and people grow up. My Mind Step 3: Match your leadership skills and approach (from last year’s successes) to the upcoming challenges and goals. Apply that leadership “wisdom” to your new Mount Everest.

Generally, goals, resolutions are changes people want to make to better themselves. They start as simple as “ I’ll drink more water” to the more complex (or unrealistic) “I am going to run 5k everyday followed by 45 mins in X gym and an hour of yoga with Adrienne in the evening” Imgflip supports all fonts installed on your device including the default Windows, Mac, and web fonts, you want can be used if you first install it on your device and then type in the font name on Imgflip. Not everyone needs to change. People always need to develop. There doesn’t necessarily have to be a drastic overhaul of your entire existence. Small changes and habits can have a massive impact on your day-to-day life as they compound. Maybe it’s a New Year and you're happy with the core variables if so it should be New Year, Same Me. If you’re not happy, is it therefore New Year, Same me? Or are you going to do something about it? Since becoming a mum, I have been through hundreds of little changes and plenty of big ones too. My body has taken a beating, I am more emotional, I have never been more tired or overwhelmed in my entire life and my social life is completely unrecognisable. I think that I have probably gone through enough changes for one lifetime, never mind one year.What causes this? Is it work? Are you too agreeable for the late nights? Does it frustrate you when you work late? Do you see others and think hmm X is getting more than me for doing less?